Reading and writing is what it's all about. Peggy Bechko, author of traditionally published romances, westerns, optioned screenplays and a number of Ebook editions of former hard copy books invites you along on her writer's and reader's journey. Check out historic romance Cloud Dancer at amzn.to/LMkCUT Find insights for readers into the writing life, helps for writers, my writing updates, occasional reviews, helpful web links for writers and fun links for readers that I uncover along the way.
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Wednesday, January 21, 2015
Writers And Readers Websites Wednesday - Words!
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
Writers and Readers Websites Wednesday - Free Language Translation
Wednesday, November 6, 2013
Writers And Readers Websites Wednesday - Dictionary.com
Tuesday, July 9, 2013
Kickstarting That Writer’s Vocabulary
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Writers & Readers Websites Wednesday - Visuwords
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
The Read and The Write Of It
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Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Writers Websites Wednesday - Expressions & Sayings
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Writers Websites Wednesday - Dropbox
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
Writers Websites Wednesday - Dumb Little Man
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Writer Terrors
Hmmmm.
Here's the thing. On the page we can be quite firm, even downright aggressive, but in person it's a different matter. While a writer might do wonderfully one-on-one, a real chatterbox, many times in a crowd that fizzles fast. Withdrawn comes to mind.
Writers are often tapped to give talks or perhaps lead a workshop or read from their work. Well, for the introverted writer, and that seems to be the dominant paradigm, that can most definitely lead to nervousness or the possibility of a outright nervous breakdown. The writer does war with the fact that he or she really doesn't want to do any public appearances at all, and yet the publisher wants those appearances to happen or the writer simply realizes that in order to publicize a book and get readers, promotion, which means public appearances, is a must.
So, today, I want to give some friendly advice to those introverted, nervous-breakdown-prone brother and sister writers out there. If you're sitting in a chair, chewing your nails, sweating and feeling like your heart is pounding against your ribs and you desperately want a drink of water, but are afraid to have it because you just know you'll need the bathroom about the time you step in front of all those people, waiting to give a talk or lead that workshop, or give that reading, (whew that was a mouthful) here's a thought.
What do you think is going to happen? I mean seriously, what do you expect to happen?
These are people interested in what you have to say, there is no right or wrong. They wouldn't be here if they weren't interested. Do you really think one or more of them is suddenly going to be possessed by the 'exorcist', have his head spin around and spout fire from eyes nose & mouth? And you can always use the ancient trick of thinking of them as naked. Head-spinning, fire-spouting naked, so they're no threat.
Godzilla isn't going to bound through the door and squish you to paste on the stage either. King Kong isn't going to break his restraints and come charging through your hall. You aren't going to die. Barring natural disaster such as earthquake, volcano or flood you're going to be fine. Right?
So, it's all good, right?
You can actually take a breath and do what you need to do, make that public appearance. And you know what? You can, in fact, have fun with it. I'm not saying you're GOING TO, I said you CAN. And it may take several appearance for you to sort it all out, relax enough and enjoy yourself.
Engage the people in your audience and you'll end up having fun - or at the very least feeling more composed and less shaky. So here's how to get started.
Be honest with your audience when you first arrive. Tell them you're nervous to the point of sweating through your clothes. Most people shy away from public speaking - they'll understand and be even more empathetic.
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Writers Websites Wednesday - Zoho Writer
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
So How's the Weather, Writers?
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
It's Writing Time
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Writers Websites Wednesday - Chicago Manual of Style
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Writer Beware - Agent Scams
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Writers Websites Wednesday - GoodReads
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
Writers Websites Wednesday - Off The Bookshelf
Monday, August 24, 2009
Are You Really a Writer? Some Writers' Realities

I've been thinking lately, about what really makes a writer. Well, for starters, one person, whether or not a writer him or her self, cannot judge whether another is a writer. It's a stippery devil, defining that. And you never now what motivates another or what goes on in another's head.
There are, however, some realities that can provide some perspective for this issue.
First, almost all writers write while they do something else. Hold down a job, chase their kids, whatever. Only a tiny percentage of writers go to their computers and sit down to write without worrying about the bills or where the next writing gig will come from. Unfortunate but true.
Hmm, not what you wanted to hear? Me either really, but there it is. One can fret over it, curse the fates, rail against it, but all that doesn't do a whole lot of good.
And the question is, what makes a writer? I mean there's the person who's written since he or she was ten; has written stacks of short stories, kept journals filled with poetry and story notes, had worked on that first novel for years...Okay, yes, that person writes but is that person a writer by 'artistic' standards or by 'professional' standards?
Different contests, local art commissions and arts agencies define a writer differently, but in general it is a "professional artist producing work of high artistic quality. Individuals are considered to be professional if they earn at least part of their annual income in their artistic work (writing), consider their artistic endeavors as a career, maintain a high level of artistic quality, and make a significant time investment in their writing. A professional writer has some writing income appearing on a tax return, maintains a calender noting regular work or training undertaken as a writer. A working writer also has receipts for expenses." The previous quote is a conglomeration of several definitions of a writer. All of them apply. And as far as the government and taxes are concerned, the writer must be striving to earn money from his or her endeavors, it cannot be a hobby.
Along with all of this the writer must be developing his or her own style, developing his or her own voice. When something is written can it be picked up and identified as the style of a particular writer? Does the writer do more than slap words across a computer screen? Will the writer produce more than one piece of work or be a one shot wonder?
Worth thinking about if you really plan to be a writer.